I know some male readers will be derisive – sceptical of my sudden change in sexual orientation and secure in their own staunch heterosexually. Well, don’t be so sure of yourself. You might be a secret gayist too.

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My debut novel is available at TrossPublishing.co.nz. I have had my work published in the Australian Spectator, the New Zealand Herald and several on-line publications. One of the only right-wing people...